Having "the talk" with your kids might not seem easy, but The Doctors and psychotherapist Dr. Mike Dow explain why it so vital to educate and speak openly about sex with your children, along with sharing tips on how to discuss it successfully.
First, Dr. Dow wants parents to know that speaking with your child about sex should not be a one-time thing. Instead of thinking about it as "the talk," he urges parents to approach it as multiple "talks."
He suggests young children should be educated about babies and pregnancy and by the age of 8 to 10 parents should not be using code words for anatomy and words like vagina and penis should be commonplace. He says parents who speak about sex in an adult manner will help to communicate to their children that the subject is okay to talk about without fear or judgment.
Dr. Dow also encourages parents to ask their children questions, for instance, inquire about what their peers are talking about when it comes to sex or try to find out the source of their sex questions.
When it comes to someone deciding on what age to have sex, Dr. Dow suggests that parents discuss the age they first had sex and speak with the child about whether they feel that age was right or possibly not the best choice.
As for parents who worried about their kids having sex too early, he feels the main reason someone has sex early is not having a strong and stable relationship with their parents. He encourages parents to spend more quality time with their kids and stresses the importance of educating them on how to protect themselves from STIs and teen pregnancy early on.