I was re-reading my blog post from yesterday and I almost deleted it. I didn't want any negativity on my blogs. I wanted to keep my sharing in this "place" positive, both for myself and for others. There are enough Debbie Downers in the world and I didn't want to be another one. It is so hard losing weight, especially when you have a considerable amount to lose and it seems almost insurmountable. I have found so much inspiration and positive support here, it meant a lot to me to keep things upbeat and my tirade last night was not who I am really, so I thought I should take it down.
Then I started getting the most amazing, thoughtful, supportive comments from my friends here. Shannon Alise, kilerkane, 2senough, EvelynElaine, dixiekat00, vickie04 and Sandra R - you guys are all awesome. Thank you so much for your kind words.
It made me think about "online friends". Now I have a Facebook page that I seldom look at. It seems to be full of "friends" who are busy in some sort of mafia war, or constructing farms, cafes or aquariums. Not my thing - although I do find it amusing that my 76 year old mother in law is apparently kicking some serious mafia butt!
I have lots of "friends" on Facebook too but the only thing I use it for is to share family photos with relatives far away. I was leery of accepting my first "friend" here (hi Bearscritter!) but I am so glad I did and continued to do so. I read all of your blogs and posts and I love hearing about everybody's successes. I love knowing that we are all in the same boat and really empathize with one another.
It made me feel so much better today to see that my friends - no quotation marks, just straight up friends - were rallying around me and quite indignant on my behalf. You guys are all very special.
So go ahead folks - friend me and I will be there for you just as everyone here has been there for me.
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I wanted to add Sandra R. to that list above - for some reason the Edit button is not showing up. Anyway, thank you to you too Sandra!
There it is! Didn't want to leave anyone out.
I think its important to write the bad stuff too. That way you are not alone if you are having an off day people on here will be more than happy to lift your spirits. I feel that I am not alone and that its OK if a have a bad day. This in the long run will help with dealing with the bad eating or giving up.
All the Best
Kristen
AAAAAh, writerchick, well said !! Dr. Phil would be so proud. I love this site !!! next to weighing myself in the morning this is the first thing I check while drinking my hot water and lemon, the support that everyone receives is absolutely amazing and I look forward to it everyday.
Truly, this little blog is making the differance for me between sticking or quitting! I agree with you, there are a whole load of fantastic people on this blog..you being one of them :) I quit Facebook before starting this program - don't miss it. Call people more now.
Ok Writer Chick.. I missed your post last night. I want to say that I have had someone sabotage my good efforts by comments said. It just devastates you. I have already heard that it is just water weight. My mom is good at okay but you never keep it off.
We have all heard some of this in some way. I haven't lost quite as much as you but I have lost. I keep saying that this is just different than anything I have ever tried. The big thing is IT IS HEALTHY! You just keep that positive outlook AND the great weight loss...I love your posts and your outlook. You Rock Girl!
Great post. I feel the same way. I do not have a Face Book page. I have always thought them a waste of time. My friends email me to my email account if they want to tell me something.
I too was nervous about friending people & putting my thoughts out there on this site. I'll tell you I am so glad that I did. There are people in this diet network that reallly get my struggles. I have been overweight for years & this is the first time I feel like I have to support to take it off. Who knew all I needed was a few strangers??? I will never turn to pastries & fried food for comfort again. Not when I have so many wonderful 17 day diet FRIENDS!
Nice to have you on my side, Writerchick1!
I understand what you mean about FB I'm one of those that plays some of the silly games. But I have also met some great people on here and now they are friends on fb too. I love sharing things on facebook that I don't feel fits on this site. I saw your post that said "Make my day...friend me...." So I did. I have found alot of support on one of the groups I'm on and really would like to beable to find other groups too. I liked your post about your friends. Postive...yes being postive is great but sometimes...you just got to get it off your mind...whatever it is...
Well i put in my request to be your friend, let me tell you i also have to lose at least 110 lbs and i know it is hard but here it is possible with all these wonderful people. i have gone through my ups and downs and i tell you these people here are like wings they pick you up and fly with you and make you feel so wonderful inside. i am short and 268 lbs i had lost but gained again but you know what i m going to keep going ,. so you do the same and we will be here for you my dear.
Hi writerchick1........... How are you doing? I am new to all of this. I don't know even how to do this and maneuver this website. Maybe you can help. I have been reading. Congratulations on your weight loss. How do you add friends? I definitely need encouragement in this process. I have a lot to lose and it is time to get over it for myself. I want to feel comfortable in my own skin and wear real clothes. Please respond. I don't even know how to get messages
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