okay my 5 year old is treating the other kids as if she is mom, she is bossy and just complains and constantly tattles, my 2 year old is climbing everything and getting into everything, she bites when she is mad, when i put her on time out she will laugh at me and get out of time out herself, so i put her back in and she does it continuously not stop. my 1 year old goes up and grabs hair by the chunk and is climbing everything as well, getting into everything he can. i am currently prego with #4 so baby age 0. constantly baby is up in my rib to where it feels numb and i get stabbing pains, i weighed 97lbs pre-pregnancy and now weigh 25 lb.. i am 35 weeks pregnant, taking care of my kids while my husband travels and is only home 8 days a month, i go to school full time and only sleep 4 hours a night, when my husband leaves for travel the kids get out of hand, destroy the house, they walk all over me, they wont listen, they get into everything and wont listen to me, i feel invisible!!! i dont know what to do, standing in corners dont work, yelling dont work and time outs dont work what else can i do??? sometimes i feel like packing my bags and leaving, is that bad? to feel so used up and overly stressed and tired and having absolutely NO help, my mom lives near but makes excuses not to help with them and so do my sisters, i am dealing with going blind in my right eye, being anemic and i am so stressed and i dont know what to do, i am overly tired, i get so tired i dont want to move, i wake up at 530 am every morning for school, get home about 4pm, i cook dinner for the kids at 5, they go to bed at 8pm, then i spend 4-5 hours a night cleaning once they go to bed, i go to bed about 12-1am. my 1 year old refuses to sleep and wakes up at 4am every morning to crawl into bed with me, although he will spend 1 hour screaming at his bedroom door and refusing to sleep and when i go and put him back into bed, he crawls right back out of his bed and back to the door he goes!!! i dont know what to do with the out of control terror kids and need some type of sanity or advise !!!
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my suggestion: punish and reward psychology. I don't mean you should buy them things if they behave well or lock them in the closet if they are bad. But words mean allot. They should learn about some discipline. I mean it is easy to preach here, when I don't have such a problem, but the punish and reward psychology program was very successful in some EU countries.
And a spank from time to time would be good. ;-)
Good luck!
Hon, you are too far away for me to help, but perhaps you could enlist some friends to come in and help you out. Who will have the first three when baby # 4 is being born? Perhaps you could get someone to come in a couple of hours a day just so you can sleep. You will be of no use to anyone if you wear yourself too thin. Best of luck to you. Bobbie
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