I understand that it is common for loser men to dash when they get a woman pregnant. but why do they act like they care when they don't?. my husband is a victim of a runaway dad. my husbands father never bothered to try to contact him until he was 24 years old and we seen him twice. I sent him a e mail message saying that my husband and I were having a baby. I gave him our numbers so he could contact us and keep in touch. But did he? No he has not bothered to call or message us. I want to tell this man if he don't care then to forget we ever met. I know my husband is hurt by this even thou he doesn't say he is. the good that came from this is he is closer to his step father. his step father is going to step up to the plate and be the grandpa. witch makes me very happy. I have a lot of respect for him. I just find the fact his real father could care less and hurt his son so much more than he has is inhuman and mean. honestly as good wife i feel like i should tell the man to back off and never try to communicate with us again but its not my choice to make. I hate talking to my husband about it because i know its a sore spot. but men please think twice before you dine and dash! you hurt people! I think my rant is over!. sorry if i offended people. but its my view point and my opinion. sorry if it was offensive.