Im a 50 yo mom of 2 boys 21 and 23 (almost). Im married for the 2nd time and love my husband more than life.

I had bariatric surgery in 2000 and lost 1/2 myself.... 400lbs and now slightly over 200. Ive had LOTS of hernias since and lots of infections due to not being able to tolerate the mesh. Im talking like around 10 surgeries for each issue. Presently Im 3 weeks out from digging infection out and my incision has busted open (like it always does) so IM packing it and I know it will be 4-6 months till it is healed.

I also have degenerative disc so I have chronic back pain.