Undergoing a major brain surgery
Posted by diverbeck to Surgery, Sep 29, 2009 10:40am
Hello! I am about to undergo a second major brain surgery for a tumor severely compressing my brainstem. These tumors are the hallmark of a condition known as NF2 - Neurofibromatosis Type II. Sooner or later all of us need to get the same kind of surgery and some need the surgery several times as there is no cure currently for NF2. Thus, the tumors grow back - some sooner than others.
These tumors have caused me to become completely deafened, impaired my vision, and stolen my balance function. The surgery is to save my life and preserve my present quality of life if possible. Even with such devastating side effects, I am doing quite well compared to others who have suffered from this disorder.
My surgery is coming up fast! If you miss it, there are always others of us checking in and out of the hospital for brain surgery (and spine surgery). I can't keep track who is going in for surgery as it is that many.
One may follow my progess and the days leading up to my surgery on my blog at www.diverbeck.blogspot.com

underwatercolours
Sep 29, 2009 12:04pm
I would love to see this. I've met this lady scuba diving in Cozumel and she has an amazing story to tell.
joan marie
Sep 29, 2009 12:31pm
Would love to see this. I also suffer from NF2 but not as severe as most people with NF2, although now my tumors are beginning to grow. Need to bring more awareness for people that suffer from this and hopefully someday a cure.
kit kat825
Sep 29, 2009 3:35pm
Showing this would bring much needed awareness to NF2. Becky is an amazing gal & is beyond inspirational. I am certain we can all learn a great deal about NF2 & even turn the wheels in the specialists heads and hopefully find a cure.
melkiah
Sep 29, 2009 5:23pm
Please consider this Jay as NF2 is not a well known disease. Becky is such an incredible gal and has done so much. She is a super daughter in "love" and we pray all goes well with her upcoming surgery. She has beat so many challenges in her life....she is truly an inspiration.
djmrn99
Sep 29, 2009 10:00pm
I have known this gal since she was a child. She is a walking miracle and an inspiration to everyone, especially those facing major health concerns. Telling her story would be a great opportunity to raise awarness of the fascinating yet devastating disease NF2. She has quite the story to tell. I have often thought she should write a book. I truly hope this does not become a missed opportunity for all the viewers and the producers of the show.
grace34
Sep 30, 2009 6:55am
This would be a brilliant story. NF2 changes so many peoples lives (my own included) and gives us all such extreme challenges, highlighting the depth of human resourcefulness. I'd love to follow one story
auntwillie
Sep 30, 2009 7:08am
Jay, This would be such a great story to help educate everyone about NF2. Becky's story could inspire the world!
ridingdresage
Sep 30, 2009 7:14am
Wow , what a super super idea. This would be so educating to everyone. This girls story is amazing and inspering. Please bring awareness to NF2.
AKPilot
Sep 30, 2009 9:54am
Becky is a tremendous inspiration to all you have had the pleasure of meeting her. My wife and I have known her for many years now, you can rest assured that her story is important and inspiring!
lukehear
Sep 30, 2009 2:06pm
Hi, I have Nf2 myself and Rebecca's is right in saying the operations to save our lives can also devastate us I had open brain surgery 1 month ago this has left me unable to walk and my vision is impaired as I am profoundly deaf you can imagine how precious my eyes are to me If Nf2 was televised more awareness of this condition would can only help to find a cure or a least a treatment that can shrink the tumours without the need for open brain surgery.
Trenty
Sep 30, 2009 4:01pm
I also have NF2 - I have had 1 brain surgery so far but still have 2 more tumours on my brain. I have lost hearing on my left side and also have balance issues. The other 2 tumours are on an optic nerve and the nerve that controls facial movement. I also have many other tumours thru my body (shoulder - arm - spine). Rebecca is amazing and inspirational. While I have never met her (As I'm in Australia) we have been comunicatiing and she has given me hope! Good luck Beck!!!!! - Trent (Aust)
gdthoms
Sep 30, 2009 5:38pm
I, also, have NF2. Rebecca has worked wonders for our cause by bringing attention to this devastating disease. We need a cure. I did not know that I had this disease when I had children. One or both of my sons could end up inheriting this disease. For them I hope for a cure soon!
conniewalt
Sep 30, 2009 10:17pm
Becky has survived so much from the time I met her as a student in college. She managed to complete her school year despite undergoing cancer treatment for Hodgkin's. Her voyage through NF2 and the resulting complications have made her even stronger.
auntwillie
Oct 1, 2009 3:08am
PLEASE PLEASE DO A SHOW ON THIS. EVEN MY DOCTOR DID NOT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THIS.
fredrea
Oct 1, 2009 10:34am
This would be an amazing and inspirational story. I hardly know her and from what I know and what I have read in local news papers she is a medical miracle. I generally don't go out of my way to recommend stuff like this however this is a story made for TV. Someone who was completely normal went from Normal to completely death in a short period of time. She has a tough time seeing and walking and from what I understand most people who have such an advanced case are bed ridden. Rebecca can talk, walk, run, and communicate as though she doesn't have the disease and I think that is in large part to her staying active and working to bring NF2 to the public. An Amazing story which would make great inpirational TV.
Dogmad
Oct 1, 2009 12:40pm
In the UK, research into NF2 is only done "on the back of" cancer charities. Whilst this condition knows no social barriers, it brings many social barriers with it. Little is known about this condition by the general public and those who suffer, usually suffer in silence - in more ways than one ! So, please, let's educate lots more people - and, at the same time, reduce the discrimination, heartbreak and anxiety that this condition brings with it.
rdasilvari
Oct 1, 2009 1:15pm
good idea
Sherry Cochran
Oct 1, 2009 2:45pm
Hello, I do not have NF2 but have a profound hearing loss in the 90-100 dB range, considered hard-of-hearing wearing two hearing aids. I am a writer & have a published article about NF2 in the '09 Summer issue of Hearing Health magazine, profiling five people with NF2, including Rebecca Dufek. Please go to www.drf.org to look at the article in '09 Summer issue titled, "Silver-Lining Seekers: Meet my Friends with NF2." I personally know all of the people profiled in the article & want to start a campaign for research funding in the Pacific N.W. with Rebecca after she recovers from her upcoming brain surgery to remove another tumor caused by NF2; we envision a national & then a worlwide non-profit organization to fund NF research. Another good source for info about all of the NF conditions that cause severe acoustic neuromas that can grow anywhere inside of the body but mainly target the spine & brain in both children & adults, is the House Ear Institute (HEI) connected with St. Vincent Medical Center in Los Angeles, where there is a team of surgeons that specialize in treating NF headed by Drs. Rick A. Friedman & Dr. Gil Lederman. These two & other Drs. & medical staff, have established afund at HEI for patients unable to afford the expensive medical care, surgeries & travel expenses (many travel from 3rd world countries, such as Yvonne Foong, one of the people profiled in the article I wrote for HH magazine, who has struggled to raise the funds for all of her medical care & cost of treatment in the U.S. because Malaysia has few NF specialists or the medical equipment needed to treat NF patients, along with an inadequate medical system that does not cover expensive medical care for those who do not have the money.) Including a segment on your TV show about NF would be a wonderful way of bringing awareness of this terrible disease to the public and advocating for funding research for this devastating disease.
luckystar40
Oct 1, 2009 3:43pm
This would be a great story as a person also with nf2 and have under gone 3 brain surgeries and gamma knife..This is a big disease with little awareness..
msj2640live
Oct 1, 2009 5:20pm
Your own family and friends can learn and take inspiration from you. May God bless you kiddo!
msj2640live
Oct 1, 2009 5:20pm
Your own family and friends can learn and take inspiration from you. May God bless you kiddo!
kdwilson23
Oct 1, 2009 5:50pm
My twin brother, Patrick, has NF2. He has been fighting this disease his whole life. My family has many questions because there is so much unknown about NF2. We understand that there is no cure, but some answers sure would help!
kdwilson23
Oct 1, 2009 5:50pm
My twin brother, Patrick, has NF2. He has been fighting this disease his whole life. My family has many questions because there is so much unknown about NF2. We understand that there is no cure, but some answers sure would help!
Mrs Innes
Oct 2, 2009 10:12am
I also think a show needs to be done on NF2 , My29 yr old son is now 80% blind , partially deaf and they stopped counting at 100 for tumors on his spine...5 years ago he had a job , drove his truck and lived on his own...Now he is disabled and lives at home.
swallin
Oct 2, 2009 2:17pm
I like your attitude. Those brainstem compressions are nasty stuff with all-l-l the multiple side effects. Yes a show is a good idea and maybe a popular science journal can pick up on it too.
shigley
Oct 2, 2009 10:28pm
I also have NF2 and am deaf from it. i dont have any balance nerves, however i am blessed to have good leg strength (as a runner) and vision so that I can continue my passion for running! I run on the NF Team to raise $ for a cure, but this is so little compared to all that needs to be done! NF needs more awareness so that a cure can be found! Please make a show about it! (and somebody tell me if it happens bc i dont keep up with that tv show, since i am busy college student!)
eblock
Oct 3, 2009 3:10am
This would be a great idea! I have had 8 surgeries and had radiation twice. We need public awareness, general practitioners need to be educated about our illness to diagnose early and we need funding and research as there is no cure. It is an anxiety provoking illness as we are constantly watching and waiting for the next tumor, or surgery etc PLEASE SUPPORT THIS CAUSE!
skeeboy
Oct 3, 2009 3:15am
My partner has NF2 and just in our 4 and a half years together she has had 4 surgeries and radiation too. It is a very tough illness for us both to live with. It would be great if people supported public awareness of this illness to ensure research and a cure/better medical understanding.
pfreeman
Oct 3, 2009 1:42pm
Please tell the world about the devestating issues associtaed with NF2.
kdetle254
Oct 4, 2009 10:49am
I would love for this to be on the show. My daughter has NF1. Neurofibromatosis is a very common genetic disorder, 1 in 3,000. There are people out there that don't even know they have it. What a great way this would be to educate the public about NF.
JKrawcheck
Oct 4, 2009 5:41pm
We have and will have you in our prayers. Your story need to be told. We admire you and all that you do. Our very best, Joan and Mike Krawcheck ps I did vote!
denelle
Oct 6, 2009 3:50pm
I also suffer from NF2. I have undergone 2 brain surgeries and one spinal surgery. I am completely deaf in my right ear and hard of hearing in the left. The spinal surgery has left me with various degrees of numbness throughout my body. Bringing this disorder to the public's eye would do so much to help us all.
treacyb
Oct 7, 2009 1:09am
My beautiful daughter has been on the NF2 journey for 10 years. Daignosed at 14, she has had 8 surgeries and 2 bouts of radiation treatment. With a large number of brain tumours and countless spinal tumours, the future holds many more surgeries. This silent illness affects not only hearing, but also vision, balance, nerve damage and cognitive function. The effects include physical, psychological and emotional trauma, not to mention extended periods away from school/work and social isolation. We would like to see the profile of NF2 raised and more research undertaken to find a cure, or at the very least a way to slow down tumour growth. Becky, we hope you make it on the show and bring your story to the public. All the best for your surgery - Treacy (Australia)
Laymangirl
Oct 7, 2009 3:44am
Great idea to film and broadcast a story about NF2. People will tune in to watch a show documenting brain surgery and the condition known as NF2 will become better known and hopefully studied.
sharilyn
Oct 7, 2009 9:12am
Becky has been an inspiration to me for a long time now. I've been a part of Becky's life since she was around 8. She became my niece when I married her Uncle Al. Her perseverance is what makes me most inspired. Sharing her story will bring NF2 to the forefront.
auntwillie
Oct 7, 2009 9:28am
PLEASE PLEASE DO A PROGRAM ON THIS. IT WILL HELP US ALL UNDERSTAND WHAT THIS IS AND HOW IT AFFECTS THE PATIENT, AND FAMILYS. AND MAYBE THIS WILL HELP THE MEDICAL FIELD UNDERSTAND THE PATIENTS BETTER.
diverbeck
Oct 8, 2009 4:50am
Thank you everyone for your votes and wonderful comments! I especially appreciate those who have shared their NF2 stories and further explained how it affected you or your loved ones. That is a really great point treacyb brought up - NF2 affects more people other than the patient alone.While I was fortunate to be diagnosed in adulthood, many are diagnosed as a teen or child and it is quite an emotional ordeal for parents to deal with as they are laden with the burden of heavy decisions to make. From my adult standpoint, my husband has been equaily affected as he has had to totally relearn how to communicate with me, help advocate/setup appointments until I was readjusted to a deaf self, take care of important personal life issues during my moments of tramua and "brain fog", help to problem solve/implement strategies to help me with memory loss, contend with my emotional dissappointment at physical loss and much more all while grapling with the uncertainty that exists in what time together we have. After I had cancer back in 1993, I saw the emotional toll it took on family members. It seemed as though in a way, the cancer was more difficult for the caregiver than it was for me as patient. I am sure in many ways, NF2 is more difficult for spouses, parents, and partners. As treacyb states, there are also psychological and emotional effects as well as physical. Those are the unseen which can be just as burdensom as the physical losses. When I compare the NF2 to my experience with cancer, the cancer for me was much easier. After 6 months of chemo followed by radiation, it was over - I was in remission. Sure there was the yearly checkup and the waiting out to be clear at the 5 year, 10 year, and 15 year mark. But as time progressed every year, my chances of staying cancer free became more and more favorable. Also, after the cancer I was able to go back to my normal life and have the same abilities. It is not so for NF2. For one, there is not a cure yet so it never ends. Therefore, one must develop the ability to persevere again and again and most especially adapt to major changes due to the physical losses. Further, because there are so many tumors and they continually grow making future uncertain, one must learn to really live in the now and make the most of life. Life with NF2 is very mentally draining so we tend to seek out positive forms of mental relaxation/endurance to survive. I think all of these aspects are important to highlight as it is a large part of understanding the impact NF2 has and why it is more than a disease that merely causes deafness. Knowing about and understanding this disorder, will help support continued research to find better treatments or a cure and also enable the entire medical community to correctly diagnose patients, communicate with them, care for them, and also refer them to the appropriate specialists. Thank you very much to the producers for giving us an opportunity to present this idea to your show and for your sincere consideration.
diverbeck
Oct 8, 2009 5:03am
I will be leaving in 8 days for Oregon. My brain surgery is on Wednesday October 21st at OHSU - Oregon Health and Science University in Portland, Oregon. For this surgery, I will have the same surgeon and team as my 2007 surgery. This time, they will debulk (take out as much as possible) of the left side vestibular schwannoma tumor on the left side acoustic nerve. The tumor has distorted my brainstem and is attached to it. So that is why they will not be removing it all. The goal is to take out as much as possible but do as little harm as possible with the goal of preserving my quality of life. There is also a 2nd tumor which has grown into the above mentioned tumor. From the scans, it looks like it may be a trigeminal schwannoma. So on the MRI, it appears one humungous oddly shaped tumor. They will try to remove the 2nd tumor entirely if they can. Please keep checking my blog www.diverbeck.blogspot.com for updates.
MrsJay
Oct 22, 2009 9:20am
May God bless and keep you. I pray that your surgery gets produced and we can raise awareness of NF2.
Sharlyanne
Nov 16, 2009 9:01am
One of the main hospitals for surgery for NF2 is HEI in Los Angeles. They definitely are the ones others compare themselves to! There are several types of surgeries NF2ers have and all are interesting. But, some definitely more dangerous and life-changing than others. This disease can begin so quietly that your GP may think you're dizzy from an ear infection, or your headaches are stress-related. This is not catching, but some people inherit it, and about half get it spontaneously -- we're the ones who have a hard time determining what's going on until sometimes we're literally bouncing off the walls walking down a hallway! Most doctors have never heard of NF2 -- or think it's part of NF1.
relissa
Nov 24, 2009 9:19am
I too share the same condition as Becky and several of the others that have written these comments. Most of us have never met.Although we ovten find ourselves traveling to the same surgeons or specialists just because of their knowledge on NF2. They are few and far between. There is a severe lack of awereness of NF2. I myself have had 4 brain surgeries this year alone.At age 27 I have been un-able to walk since a stroke cased by an NF2 surgery 1 year ago. I'm now unfortunately looking forward to undergoing yet another surgery. This time it may leave me deaf. Just as most other people with NF2. It's a hallmark sign of NF2. There are many others. I believe Becky can bring out to you exactly what NF2 "means". She has had or seen most of these problems.. I believe in you to spread the woed.Awareness can bring on true miracles. We need funding for more research. Our Dr.'s also need newer and better training. Your help can go a long way..
pearltea51
Dec 3, 2009 1:56pm
I am very interested in diverbeck's story - I hope they have a great support group and look forward to hearing more about their recovery. I am going through something similar and have been diagnosed with a low grade glioma in my brain. This is a lot for anyone to wrap they thought around and the outcome depends on the care that is received. Not having insurance since my husband was laid off in January 09, I am still working as a Hospice nurse but afraid I will have to move my people elsewhere if I don't get some medical intervention soon. I pray for diverbeck and many others who are going through health discomfort. Hope you can cover options for others as well.
Meosforg
Feb 24, 2010 8:59am
I have to say I have no ideal what NF2 is and well kinda don't want to find out. Not a grouch and not that I don't care but I too have someone in my family who has something where tumors grow. That's how I came across this. My child has TSC. With this she too is being looked at for Brain surgery. I think they really need to look at how do you prepare for this and how do you set thing's up for families who undergo this. I know that both cases are different but so are every brain surgery. I can only imagination what it could be like for you or anyone who has done this already. My child turned 3 this year and on a hand I could count how many thing's are normal for us. We try so hard but have really NO way of getting her ready for this. How can you tell a 3 year old who don't talk and dont understand most what you ask of her to understand we are going to do brain surgery to fix her seizures? WE need help! Also how do you handle the after math of this?