Seriously, if you were dating a boy, you would bring him home and introduce him to your parents.  The same goes for a girl.  Just introduce whoever you are dating as a friend, male or female.  Your parents will eventually ask the right questions and when they do, you can just try being honest with them.  My son is seventeen. Very shy.  I always ask him if there is anyone he likes.  He would say yes and that would be the end of the conversation.  Well, he graduated last week and this beautiful, blonde girl says, HI Tom!  I was like, who's that?  He made a face.  I mouthed "the one?" and he made the same face.  That is how I knew who my son liked.  So, just go about your life like regular and be honest with them and yourself.  Everything will work out just the way it should.  You need to have faith in yourself and your parents.  Good luck.  Bobbie

thankyou you guys ima wait a fewww years but my sisters keep asking if "when are you gonna tell mom?" i dont know when i keep saying "i dont know." they keep asking until i get the answer but ima wait a while.. your right damsell i will just consider them as"a friend" i will bring over girl or boy but im still unsure bout my sexualitly now since my sisters keep questioning me about it.. so i dont know anymore..

I'm not going to offer you any advice because every family is different. But I will tell you what I learned about parents. I just recently realized that I always expected the worst. I always thought they would be dissapointed or angry and quit loving me for some of the wild things I've done. I was wrong. My parents stood by me through everything in my life, the good, the bad and the ugly. And I was not an easy child. I think for awhile I actually enjoyed putting them through hell. But regardless of what I did they still love me and they always will. We don't always give our parents enough credit. I think even though your parents might not understand they still ultimately will want your happiness. All our parents want for us is to be happy and they will always love us unconditionaly. They might have a hard time understanding and accepting your choices but the key is communication. I've learned that by keeping the communication lines open with my parents helps us understand each other. I wish you the best of luck. And always be true to yourself.