Miranda,I don't know how old you r but you have your whole life to have sex.A relationship is not about just sex.It is about all involed. Talking,friendship and etc. I am old but if I had SEX with all that did,I would not be able to get dress. Makeing love and sharing this is important so if you date and they can wait they may be the one for you. Please know it is up to you to have sex,But you want to make and make love.

Love

Sheilah

You make having SEX,Makeing Love Important.You have one shot

Be a kid (teen, young adult) for as long as you can.  Sex is not something you should be too concerned with right now.  Don't complicate your life experimenting with sex.  Enjoy life as it's meant to be for a person of your age.

There's been some good advice for you to follow here.

For some, it is the age old debate of religion, for others it can be "an urge" for yet more people it can be the act of loving someone on a deeper level.  Whatever your reason always remember NEVER let yourself be pressured into it by ANYONE.  If you're feeling pressured than right away you're not doing it for you, your doing it to satisfy someone else. 

Having your virginity is something special and I don't think anyone can exactly explain why.  Maybe it is the fact that you are pure and the person you give that purity to should be someone who will appreciate, with all their heart, the fact that you have "saved" yourself for them.  This goes hand in hand with the fact that there are SO many people out there that will find out your a virgin and silently rub their hands together thinking 'a-ha a different kind of conquest'.  And believe me to a lot of people sex is a form of conquest. 

Stay true to you.  If you're young, you have ALL the time in the world to have sex.  Have fun doing other things... ride a horse... go bowling... climb a mountain... write a journal... do sommersaults down a hill. 

Take the time to find that special someone to build a relationship with and then make LOVE, don't just have sex.

Oh and of course..... dood, forget it. ;-)  Great advice DeathWish!

Well, it becomes "your problem" when or if you realize the act was regretful. Try this for a blog...create a blog and ask one question to the general audience and see what the reaction is. The question should be..."Do you feel you should have waited longer to have sex?" You will get truthful answers from woman of all different ages, and some from Men too. Maybe you would find the answers helpful?

Enjoy being young and don't have sex just because everybody else is having it. Sex is the best when you are mentally, physically and emotionally ready to handle the outcome of your choice to have sex. While you are young you are not prepared for that  at any level. You will wind up damaging your soul in every way if you rush into it. GOOOOD LUCK

phacultyRx thankyou i am christan and i want to stay pure for a while. i want a purity ring but i dont go to church often but i do belive in god soo can i still get one?