It's been a little while since I last written anything. I've been dealing with alot in my life. I was terminated from my job on 12-22-02. Yea 4 or 5 days before x-mas. For something I did over 20 years ago. I've been with this company for 4 years. They first did a backround check on me and it went back 7 years. So they hired me. But now since they state they were recently licesened they had to do another one. Give me a break. I was only 18 or 19 years old at the time. It was a STUPID thing I did. I wish I could take it back but I can't. It was basicly a bunch of us kids getting back at someone for slashing our tires. We thought it was her car and it turned out to be her dads car. So we all got into trouble. Like I'm the only one that has ever done anything stupid like that.Oh please. I'm now almost 40 years old and I have NEVER done anything else wrong in my life. I'm a model citisen. I was even employee of the month for november. I'm so upset about this. All I do is cry. I loved my job. I loved what I did. I'm looking into getting this off of my record. Because I don't deserve to have this on my record anymore. I'm married with 2 kids. So not only am I paying for this still, but now so is my poor family. I might as well be in jail becuase I'm serving a life sentence for this anyway. I can't go back to school to be a nurse because for this I can't do anything. My life is over. I've been crying so much now I've broken a blood vessel in my eye. I'm throwing up all the time. Not on purpose or anything like that. But becuase this is alot of stress on me. I'm scared of losing my house and everything. Which we moved almost 3 years ago. My son'e change into our house was terrible. He didn't do well. But now he's finally adjusted and happy. I can't let my kids down. They are right now the only reason I get up everyday. I just pray that I can get this off of my record. My job said that if I do get this off of my record, that I can have my job back. So please pray for me. Thanks to anyone who reads this. Have a good nite.
miley
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Hello Miley, I am so sorry to hear your news. I know this will not back this any easier for you,But I beleive every thing happens for a reason and I know there will be something better in store for you.
Have you thought about writeing a letter to your company and explain what was the situation and that you didn't realize that was harmful to you and that is why you didn't put it on your paper work or that you thought it was not on your record any longer??. And this is a devasting situation to anyone so cry if you need to but try and regroup for your self and your children. Try and take it one day at a time and if need be one minute at a time. Try to start writing down a plan for you. Something bigger and better is in store for you.
If you are good with people you can always sell wedding gowns.. Well keep the faith and please keep posting 2 months from now you will look back and see this time has been a good thing.
I will keep you and your familys in my Prayers
Love
Sheilah
WHAT?! You were FIRED on account of a *provoked* 'destruction of property'? Like, 20 years ago? Jeez. You've obviously paid your debt long ago, and you've proven yourself to be an exemplary employee. Besides, shouldn't the record have been expunged at age 21? Hopefully you can find a legal advocate and talk to the labor board or something. It seems so unreal! <> I can relate. My life is equally unreal. I have no means to escape from my abusive irresponsible husband. Thanks to him, we're about to be homeless. Constant Stress = headaches/nausea, etc
I made a typo on the date I was terminated. It was 12-22-08. NOT 12-22-02. Sorry.
miley
Miley hope you are feeling better today and thing s are sarting to make more sense.
Smile
Sheilah
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