I have been so very sad for the past few months as a result of my momma being in

(STAGE 4) UTERINE ADENO SARCOMA. A VERY, VERY..... RARE FEMALE CANCER!~

Chemo and Radation is not the typical protocol for this cancer,  it is surgery. 

My Momma's  last surgery was about 18 months ago  where she had 1/2 her right lung removed,  along with a cannonball maligant tumor!

They actually studied her/ and along with her permission (THE DOCTORS) wrote a paper on her and her cancer @ UPENN Hospital, Phila, PA with one of her surgeries when my MOMMA had a basketball tumor removed from her stomach area to help future patients who will be unfortunate to be diag/with this cancer. 

*******>>>>ON a FUTURE SHOW can you please/ OR WILL YOU PLEASE CONSIDER finding THE TOP DOCS IN THE COUNTRY to DISCUSS THIS RARE CANCER along with OTHER TRICKY CANCERS to HELP PEOPLE WHO SUFFER along with FAMILY members how to cope,  also HOW to properly interact with CANCER PATIENT IE WHAT TO SAY,  or NOT say,.HOW TO DETECT via thru a blood test.., and FAMILY HISTORY,  does this or THAT cancer rare or not run in families being so rare...ETC!~

***ALSO>> How  do members of such families make the time remaining the best possible for  the patient?  To keep them comfortable, painfree...on every level? 

THANK YOU VERY VERY MUCH EVERYONE!~

I have been loving your show from the get go and PRAY YOU ALL WIN EMMY's this year because YOUR TVSHOW keeps getting better and better and THE DOCTOR TVSHOW SAVES LIVES!

*** THANK YOU FOR EVEN CONSIDERING THIS REQUEST!.....

There is a reason I am telling you all this info and I greatly appreciate you  all reading my blog!

Thank You for  your time and attention....

HONESTLY AND It makes my heart happy that I have been a TOP WRITER on your website for over a year only being bumped off a fewtimes! 

It actually helps me so much and my self esteem...

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for giving me my voice and not at all judging me for my typos but

P L E A SE.... PLEASE can we have a spell check one day? THANK YOU FOR THAT TOO!~

Finally ABOUT MY MOMMA>>>>>

In June 2004 They gave her 48 months to live!  Outwardly she doesnt appear to be ILL, inside well that clearly speaks differently and four new tumors have rbeen detected. 

When my husband Tommy became ILL MARCH 2010 and he was in the hospital when he had congestive heart failure and acute kidney failure all of that my family back east

"thought they told me Momma's cancer returned,  but they did not but I hold no hard feelings just having a (SH)(*&( 2010 so far!)

 PS Tommy has lost over 45 pounds and we both are eating a HEART HEALTHY NO SALT NO FAT DIET AND ALL IS WELL IN OHIO!~All except bouts of saddness for my Momma and all she is going thru....

MY MOMMA NOW >>IS On a clinical trial @ THE CANCER INSTITUTE OF NEW JERSEY and her heart beams with HOPE AND CONFIDENCE even though THE UGLY BLACK CANCER tumors have returned in her body!........

My husband and I live about 500 miles away from my Momma and my sister,  my brother, my daughter and son in law and my sonny William.......

My Momma has such a positive outlook so on the telephone with her I focus all my attention with positive energy and happiness but with all above listed family members we support eachother share how sad we are,  we cry,  and when my husband is at work I cry at the drop of a hat even when I see puppies on a commercial!

I then think in my brain and in my heart.....how actually this situation IS IN GOD's hands and no one can "LABEL" ANYONE OR ANYTHING..... when it is time to go to heaven right?......IT IS WHEN GOD SAYS NO DOCTORS ITS GODS PLAN so truly that gives my heart comfort!

STill.....I have deep bouts of crying and remembering and basically just plain saddness of my Momma's doom as a result of this rare OB/Gyn Cancer. 

My Momma has worked so hard all her life!  She is a retired school teacher from PUBLIC SCHOOL SYSTEM.... and when I walk around my hometown at the grocery store with her at anytime her former students always come up to us and thank her for being such a great teacher!  This makes me so very proud of her!

 DEAR JAY AND ERICA LAST THURSDAY......

I wrote all the above to get it all out of me and to also to let you wonderful parents know. that when you allowed all of us to meet YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER,  AVERY ELIZABETH who made her first TV debut on DR PHIL SHOW along with your parents my sad tears turned from my gloominess to honest to goodness TEARS OF JOY and true love and bliss!  I watched with such delight and I remembered when my babies were first born,  how GREAT JAY was swaddling AVERY and How Erica's eyes beamed with love and How sparkly and how much she adored her new babygirl!

Your daughter is so beautiful and so honored/and adored not only by such great parents (You both) but your network of people who will protect and cherish her forever! I loved so much HOW ROBIN is so excited being a GRANDMOMMA (The most Beautifulist Grandma I ever did see...)and THE PRIDE from DR PHIL being a firsttime Grandpa...AND ALSO what a special treat being able to meet Erica's parents too! Erica your Momma is so pretty! Honestly in the looks department!>>>I can see both Jay and you Erica in that perfect babydoll!

I have three grown children.  My oldest beautiful daughter is 23 years old and she is married.  My middle kind hearted, lovely stunning, daughter is 20 and she is engaged,  and lives in a state 1,000 miles away.  My sweet, gentle sonnyboy (heres the weird part) is like 6'4 and is about 165 pounds.  ERICA when you hold your sweet child (Lets say your next baby is a sweet son)when he starts growing taller and taller its just so wonderful and delightful and amazing.

Than that baby boy starts growing and growing the weird part is then your son starts getting taller and taller and taller WWWOOOOOWWW.  My neck hurts just looking up at him!  Oh and I forgot to mention my heart is filled with pride because he just finished a week ago his first year of COLLEGE and he during this past year fulltime college kid and has 2 jobs to boot!

JAY AND ERICA I am sure you heard this over and over ENJOY them while you have them because in a blink you will be waving your baby off to college too!~  I wish you both the highest level of positive energy and I wish you have 3 more babies too!~

THERE IS SO MUCH LOVE IN THAT MCGRAW FAMILY ANY BABY COMING IN WILL BE SPOILED WITH ABUNDANCE OF LOVE< JOY AND BLISS!~ WITH THAT it is the most perfect home indeed!~I can tell already you both are PERFECT PARENTS! TRUST YOUR GUT!~YOU can do no wrong!

~xoxLabelfree~xox

PS.

My youngest child William age 19 is about to board an airplane from Phila, PA630am and come out here to Ohio as a belated Mom's Day to me.  My Middle daughter Heather is leaving FLA today on a plane and doing the same and latter today GOD WILLING Please pray for NO RAIN we are driving up to DETRIOT  tonight for a 7PM to watch a YANKEE GAME. At the NEW STADIUM.   As the "kids" get older you go thru stages it is so very cool each stage but truly I miss my little babies but I ADORE MY CHILDREN and my heart beams everytime I lay my eyes on them. 

CHILDREN ARE GIFTS FROM GOD.. I HAVE BEEN BLESSED AND JAY AND ERICA GOD HAS BLESSED YOU WITH THAT SPECIAL SWEET BABYDOLL AVERY ELIZABETH!~

xox