I am a 56 year old female married in 1973 to my soulmate and best friend, Maurie.  We are empty nesters having raised two children, Carrie and Wade.  I am 5'8" tall and weight about 148 pounds with a BMI about 22.5 and am in good health.  I handle a lot of stress on a daily basis as I help my husband with our automobile dealership tht is 102 years ol din the same family(not a good time to be in that business).  I take care of my mother who is wheelchair bound without a hip due to chronic infection.  I have been care giving for more than 20 years starting with my grandmother, then father-in-lawm then mother-in-law, then father and now mother.  All are deceased except Mom.  I am the go-to person in my family even though I am the middle child.  Our son suffers from chronic depression and has been suicidal at times, but is doing okay now.  He lives alone, but is unable currently to sustain himself financially as he is still climbing out of hitting rock bottom and is going back to school.  Our daughter is married and a stay at home mom with a husband who makes a good living.  They are expecting a second child.  I also am a very active community volunteer with a reputation of getting things done.