Thanks Wendy your family looks great.  Sounds like you have alot of problems as well.  I added you as one of my friends.  God bless you and your family as well.  Thanks again

Hi Candi im new to this website.. Wow your story sounds awful! I too have a yucky back but mine a a deviated sancrum its another word for deformed sancrum, it causes one of my legs to be shorter than the other because it throws my hips off balance. I used to have bad back pain but I started Yoga and it helps alot. i will Pray for your pain to go away. God Bless Wendy

My goodness have you ever had a lot of misshaps in your life

Hi thanks for the add it sounds like you know some of what i am going through. I have been with him for 21 years. God only knows how many times he has cheated on me. and each time my dum ass self as taken him back. I don't know what kind of hold he has on me but it is very strong. I do know one thing it is not the sex. Sex was great for at least 14 years of our lives. Then it got to where i was the one giving and not recieving. He would say come here let me unload this load in you. Are here put your mouth on here so i can get off. But now I just look at him with sarcastic voice (oh your so romantic) then walk a way.

Sorry I didn't write back sooner, Lupus is a disease where your own immune system attacks your own body.  It can attack anything from joints, tissue, and organs.  When your white blood cells start attacking your own body parts and cells, typically it starts fevers, fatigue, and I have started having weight loss (the weight loss part is not a problem yet as I could still stand to lose somemore) :0)  Right now or as of today it is attacking my heart I went to the Dr. today I was having shortness of breath, chestpain, and feelling lightheaded and faint.  My heartrate was 140 beats per minute!  I didn't realze it was beating that fast.  I also have MRSA (the superbug) it's back because my immune system doesn't work unless it's attacking me.  Anyway hopefully I get it all straightened out someday.  I'm sorry you have chronic pain, it's really hard to deal with.  Thanks for the reply.  Michele 

Thanks.  Yes I may be in pain, but you have alot of pain of your own.  What exactly is Lupus again.  The described on the doctors that one day but someone called and interrupted my watching the doctors,  You hang in there and I'll hang in there too do you work at a hospital

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Thanks.  Yes I may be in pain, but you have alot of pain of your own.  What exactly is Lupus again.  The described on the doctors that one day but someone called and interrupted my watching the doctors,  You hang in there and I'll hang in there too

Hi Candi,

Sorry I didn't notice you had written back to me.  I have a a long and complicated mystery diagnoses sort of history, my life story is on my profile page if you'd like to read it.  The short version is I was diagnosed with Lupus (or not depending on who you talk to they all agree it's some sort of AutoImmune disorder, but don't want to commit to one) that was 12 years ago, then in October 2005 I had a 300+ lb patient fall out of bed and I caught her and ruptured L4-5.  Somewhere inbetween those 2 events I had gone to a Neurologist after a car accident and was told I had a bulging disk in my neck, and that I had Degenerative Disk Disease in my neck.  I was also diagnosed with Osteo Arthritis in my low back (and they maybe said my neck to, but I'm not sure about that).  Then after being unable to work for 9 months because of the ruptured disk, I took another job at a Children's hospital and I got MRSA (the superbug) because of my weakened Immune system due to the Autoimmune disorder.  It (MRSA) has come back 13 times in the last 2 years.  Because of the MRSA I can't have surgery on my back.  I have a lot of pain from one disc I can't imagine what you must be going through! Sorry it took so long for me to write back.  Michele

Have you seen a chiropractor?  They can usually help a whole lot.

Hi Candi,

Sorry it has taken me a few days to get back to you, I fell in the tub the other night and hurt my back, and this is the first time I have felt like sitting up long.

I was trying to redo my profile and tell more about mysel and this silly computer decided to shut down on me and I lost what I had typed. so I guess I will do it again.

Did you watch the show today, I was asleep from a pain pill and missed it. what was it about?

Hope to talk to you soon.

Lesia in Tennessee