I am a single mom & grandma.  I have to admit that after going thru the shock & disappointments of having a failed marriage, that I actually like being single.  Healthwise, I feel great.  No more headaches, the ulcers have calmed down too.  I guess I always was an independent person & being on my own, making my own decisions came naturally to me.  Anybody out there living in a bad situation, don't prolong the agony.  Get out of there asap. Freedom is sweet!