Ok.. I really need advice and any information anyone can give me. My exboyfriend, who happens to be the one I lost my virginity to and the only person I have ever had sex with and the father of my child, was unfaithful to me in the last 12 weeks of my pregnancy. He had unprotected sex with multiple partners even though I was pregnant with his child. Well when my daughter was sick and almost died they tested her for all viruses and come to find out, among the other problems she was having she also had herpes. Yeah, that's the way I found out I had it. What I would like to know is how do i tell my daughter when she gets old enough to think she's ready to be sexually active that she has herpes and how can I help her to have a normal life? I would also like to know how I can have a normal sex life and if I ever accomplish a long term relationship with someone who doesn't judge me for this and I choose to get married and want another child, how do I go about this without giving my partner herpes and my child herpes? Oh and btw c-sections are not a guarantee to keep a child from getting something like this; I had a c-section and my baby girl ended up getting it anyway.