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Need more time

I have only written three blogs, this is all new to me. My husband is the naturally gifted writer in our family. But I have found that in this short amount of time that its an enjoyable thing to do. Both of my other blogs have had to do wtih stress and this one is just another. Have you ever known someone that never got in a hurry and some how felt like they had all kinds of time even though they know they have to be somewhere at a certain time. Well I'm one of those people. I'm sure I inherited this trait from my maternal grandmother, because everyone in our family always expects her to be late, and are not surprised when she is late. Its like we have no concept of time. Our brains must be wired differently because we are always trying to too much and not allowing enough time. We don't take the unexpected into account. Over the years I've gotten much better because I know it stresses my husband. I find that I don't have enough time to do many things like house work, little projects, ect. I know that its more important to concentrate on the things that are most important to you like family relationships. i can only hope that the rest will fall into place eventually. 

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Believe me when I say, "I do understand".  Scrambling to get things done, what to do first, who to call, appointments to keep.  Yes, a day can get jumbled up.  And we do think differently. Not just men and women, everybody does think different on what should be done first etc... You may be thinking ahead of what needs to be done and the concept of time that it takes for each task to complete, what task first, routes to take, planning the day.  Sometimes, not an easy chore.  Some people may breeze through a day, while others need to narrate one (step by step).  Just some thoughts and understanding.  Are you a people pleaser?  Because that takes time too. And is sometimes impossible. Maybe try and let the little things go temporarily. Don't give up your five minutes of enjoyment tho.  Diana

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