Just call when you need a friend or blog , my wife and I have a lot going on in our lifes as well but where always willin to help someone in need. I am a good listener as is she, I spend a little more time on here than she does though. I am disabled, and am home bound because of health issues and finances, but we have lost a lot and all but we keep trying .  We to lost grandchildren because of Social Services and the lack of there mother to give up the drugs she was doing and the life style she was living. We dont know what your feeling inside but we know what if feels like to held away from grandchildren and daughters becasue of who she chose to listen or believe in. So if you need some one to talk to you give us a try, there always room for more friends and nuturing behaviors is this world of hate discontent and dont give a sh** attitudes of the younger generation.    THomas & erma