Ok, "mom."  I've been there, done that too and am bitter about the lies.  I'm sorry about your loss and also see your gift to the world.  Let's just keep on shining it in their darkness!  :)

Thank you for the kind words, but I think we have a small misunderstanding. I'm a mom, not a dad LOL. I've spent time in one bad marriage that left me a widow, and am now in a wonderful marriage with a REAL man with whom we are trying to raise my three children. I have spent so much time studying marriage, love, relationships that combined with experience, I know what I want for me, my husband, kids.  You are an asset to this world also!!