GABEFRANKE, 

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TheDoctorsBoard1

i am graeteful for accepting me as a friend please i really need to confy a personal problem to someone like you who can help .since i cannot give my contact or email through this medium i do not know how to get to you.

The problem you are having with the picture of the children is due to the underscore   _  at the end of the filename.  The name must end in either a letter or a number. Renaming the file before you upload it will correct the problem. I repaired this photo for you.