what a great blog! you took the words right out of my mouth although for me it also pertains to family unfortantly. i think they really miss understand me and others. however sadly in the passed 3 years i have lost 2 friends who i thought were very close and understanding to me but in the last yrs all i got was being condemed for being sick mentally and physically. at times i would need someone to talk to and they would just say well i will call u later and guess what that call never came. but when they needed someone i was always their,  and i like u try not to judge anyone but if asked for advice i try to think if i have been in that situation or if i haven't been then i try to think of what i would do if i were. i guess i just started telling myself i need to surround my self with good helpful and understanding people in my life and boy have i found alot of you all here.                                     thanks again  Pam

Hey girlfriend, you seem to have dropped off the face of the earth.  What is this blog about?  Is someone  mistreating you?  I personally wondered where you had gone.  I am sorry if you are being mistreated.  Now, continue in the same vane you are going and you will be fine.  You have been a good friend and teacher to me and others.  I appreciate your honesty and the fact that you are not embarrassed by our questions.  We need to be educated and you have a desire to teach.  Its a win-win situ in my opinion.  Keep your chin up.  Hugs, Bobbie