Believe me when I say, "I do understand".  Scrambling to get things done, what to do first, who to call, appointments to keep.  Yes, a day can get jumbled up.  And we do think differently. Not just men and women, everybody does think different on what should be done first etc... You may be thinking ahead of what needs to be done and the concept of time that it takes for each task to complete, what task first, routes to take, planning the day.  Sometimes, not an easy chore.  Some people may breeze through a day, while others need to narrate one (step by step).  Just some thoughts and understanding.  Are you a people pleaser?  Because that takes time too. And is sometimes impossible. Maybe try and let the little things go temporarily. Don't give up your five minutes of enjoyment tho.  Diana