I am a Young lady that s 38 yrs.old and have gone threw alot of trama. I havae chose to pick up the pieces of my life and make a new Puzzle. This time i will not leave the most important piece out "Me".....It is Now Complete. I have lost my mother at the age of 16,then at the age of 21 I had 3 children and lost them in a house-fire, I then had 2 others in the late 9o's. However due to drug usage and alchohol,. I lost them to the Sate.....I am now almost 39 and I have 2 beautiful son's ages 3-1/2-and 5 yrs.old. I am so Super protective of them and wish that my trama would allow me to not be so strict and over-protective of my boys.......I love very hard now. But i am afraid i am harming my children by loving them so Much. Help