My stomch is so ugly, I will not let him see me standing up! I am short and my first child was 9lbs 6oz and 21 1/2 inches long! Between all the WIDE strech marks and sagging skin, along with 5 surgery c-section scars. I just can't allow him to see me that way. I have to be in the dark. I love this man and we are engaged. Help what can I do?
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I am so sorry I know the feeling I have the same and have since I was 22. But know if he loves you he can look past that,But I know how hard it can be. Sit ups does help and also leg lifts it will get better and you will feel better about it I promise.
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Sheilah
It seems he loves you know matter what,he asked you to marry him.Thats the kind of guy you want to keep.
Yvonne
Honey he loves you..
I was in the same boat in my 20's I used to weigh 330 pounds and that was in 1999
I began a journey of self love. It's not about him because he wants to marry you and love you forever and I bet regardless of what you think he has seen every part of you and loves you unconditionally.
Each day we have a new bginning. Today is your day. POSITIVE SELF LOVE TALK will be your first step.
If you wnat mor tips just ask!
xox
Hello,I know I don't know you but i feel the same way after 2 C-sections from navel down and I just wanted to tell you I had to keep thinking beauty is in side but I still do not like my fiance to he keeps telling me i don;t care what you look like but it's me I wish i could lose weight and have a tummy tuck but keep your chin up you are A very pretty women .
Im 27 and only had one baby boy at 7 pounds and 16 ounces, and I too have an unflattering belly. and it doest matter if he tells you that he wont care how it looks like, I think he is just protecting your feelings. And its not that you want to satisfiy him, You want to satisfy yourself and be confident when you are around him. You want a fit belly for you and no one else. If you are not confident about the skin you are in, then you are unable to enjoy sex or be confident in wearing whatever you wear! Im trying to save up for a tummy tuck! You should try doing the same! it's worth it.
Senah
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