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sister in law

I am haveing trouble with my sister in law. she is being so disrespectful to her parents. when ever she sees them she turns her head and doesn't ever talk to them. he husband is a total jurk. he has control over her. she can't even buy her own panties. he was married before and did the same thing. he is 10 yrs older. they were going out when she was in high school. she didn't even go to her senior prom because he didn't want to. they have been married for about 16 yrs. i have said to my hubby that one day she is going to snap. she has said that he doesn't abuse her, but there is other abuse then physhical. i said we will have to have an intervention. but noone has the guts but me. what do i do. my in laws are great people, they would do anything for anybody.

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crabby88

Why is she acting that way toward them? She does not realize that something could happen an

they could be gone in an instant! Anyone out there that is lucky enough to have there parents

should kiss the ground that they walk on. I loved both my parents, they knew this cause I

showed them everyday. Sorry to go off, this story struck a nerve.

mymartinez

I can't believe your sister-in-law has put up with this for 16yrs,I would of been gone.I have been in relationships with controling men(no more)He is mentally abusing her.Her self-esteem is gone and that is his plan.I think your husband needs to step up and talk to her.I think if you said something it might cause problems.I think you husband talking to her is your best bet.Hope it helps.

Take Care.

Yvonne

womanangel2

Wow this story sounds familiar. The problem is that she probably doesn't see a problem you live in it for so long or she is embarresed to admit,or she thinks he will change.LOL Been there done that.maybe don't attack her but maybe sit and talk to her in private and just share how you are feeling.Why won't she talk to them??. And yes it sounds like her self is lost.Good Luck and I will say some prayers.

Happy New Year

Sheilah

SANITA

You know that it is disrespectful and you need to stand up and do an intervention.  I mean if he controls what kind of panties she gets than he is a total control mental abusing idiot. He is mentally abusing her and it won't be long until it turns violent. Trust me I had the same issue with the father of my son. Right now my son is over 4 years old. His father was mentally  physically abusive and controlled me while I was pregnant. I walked away from him when my son was 4 months old. Since the time we split he has seen my son 2 times.  I will never allow him to be alone with my son cause he broke every line. By doing an intervention you will hopefully save your sister in law a lot of years of shame and maybe save her from a very bad situation. All mental abusers are gonna turn into physical abusers. My, ex taught me never trust anybody 100 percent.

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