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Sooo embarrassed

In the beginning of june 2008 i got tested for stds and all test came back negative .Then i met this guy may 29th 2008 .then married  him in november 2008 .(before we met he had been with two other women) .so the whole time may 29th 2008 to the present time aug 2009 we have not step out of our relationship. Now heres where it get crazy .I go to the Dr. for my aunual pap on june 16 2009 get tested for stds again and now i have a positive test for chlamydia so i get treatment then tell my hubby about it (the last time we had sex was june 8 2009 before he went to afghanistan ) so now he goes to the medic in afghanistan and gets tested for chlamydia on june 21st test comes back aug 2nd and his test is NEGATIVE ..... what ??????    HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE ?????????? when we have been having sex for a whole year now and in the beginning i had nothing to now being positive and he's not .???

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Sinduhrella

Did you see the results yourself?... or did he tell you the results?  I don't know how long it takes for something like that to bring back a positive result, talk to your Gyno.  Make sure you know who and what you are dealing with.. I'm not trying to put fear or mistrust into your relationship, but get the facts.  Do not accept a copy of the results... they can be tampered with, don't accept his "word" either.. he may not want to be honest about this situation.  If he doesn't want you to know he's been messing around, then he will go to great lengths to hide the fact.  As I said, I'm not trying to make you feel he is untrustworthy, I just know that people who are in a long distance relationship tend to have outside affrairs.  Don't be naive is all I'm saying.  I know I probably sound like a negative nelly, but forthright honesty hasn't been something I've found in many people in my life.  Good luck to you, Hun.  I hope you get the answers you are searching for.

*hugs*

~Lisa

McMillan

Thank you for all your help i think i will call my dr ..thanks

violet1977

Are you sure he is telling you the truth about coming back negative? Chlamydia is very contagious and it doesn't make sense that he didn't have it when you did. It could be possible that he did come back positive and got treated for it and didn't tell you. I would ask more questions

Lesliejoy

Hello there, probably don't remember me but I posted to you right after your husband left in June. I hope you and your little girl are doing okay. How is the situation regarding this STD going? I hope you have found some answers from your doctor and your husband. I looked up information on the type you had and it said you can have this STD and no show any symptoms at all. But sometimes you will need to go to the doctor within 1 to 3 weeks of being infected. I looked on the site Webmd.com.

Let me know how things are going, ok?

Leslie

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