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Are We Here To Judge Others

I seem to find this everywhere people wanting to judge you. I judge no one but they ask I will and can give them my experience on that question. I think too many try to be your Therapist and try to tell you your faults. Support and help are one thing but putting someone down especially in front of everyone to see or read is wrong. I try never to hurt anyone's feelings because most of us that are transitioning or thinking about it are full of emotions good and bad. I get so tired of being told I'm selfish or childish for my actions. The thing is they are my actions or mood swings and they can be way up or down but usually stabilize after awhile. You can suggest without making someone feel small or stupid we need to help not poke and prod at someone's faults. The best thing is not to be Judge and Jury to anyone and help where you can without beating someone up and belittling them for their opinion. I've lived to many years of being Judged by others and society I don't need it from people that I thought were my friends.Friends suggest and does not judge you. I will help people telling them of my experiences or my opinion on a subject but will never judge or hurt them in anyway. I hope others would want to be treated the same as you would want them to treat you.

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damsell

Hey girlfriend, you seem to have dropped off the face of the earth.  What is this blog about?  Is someone  mistreating you?  I personally wondered where you had gone.  I am sorry if you are being mistreated.  Now, continue in the same vane you are going and you will be fine.  You have been a good friend and teacher to me and others.  I appreciate your honesty and the fact that you are not embarrassed by our questions.  We need to be educated and you have a desire to teach.  Its a win-win situ in my opinion.  Keep your chin up.  Hugs, Bobbie

Pamjones

what a great blog! you took the words right out of my mouth although for me it also pertains to family unfortantly. i think they really miss understand me and others. however sadly in the passed 3 years i have lost 2 friends who i thought were very close and understanding to me but in the last yrs all i got was being condemed for being sick mentally and physically. at times i would need someone to talk to and they would just say well i will call u later and guess what that call never came. but when they needed someone i was always their,  and i like u try not to judge anyone but if asked for advice i try to think if i have been in that situation or if i haven't been then i try to think of what i would do if i were. i guess i just started telling myself i need to surround my self with good helpful and understanding people in my life and boy have i found alot of you all here.                                     thanks again  Pam

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