I get so tired of having to justify my gender and or sexual tendencies because I am different or not so called normal. Even most Gay,Lesbian or Bi people don't and even Cross Dressers. I am lucky I don't look like a guy with a dress on and my heart goes out to the ones that do. I guess most are tolerated by society because most look like they are normal (I hate labels) but we do or can too I think the problem comes in with the fact men can be attracted by us and if that happens OMG they will think they are Gay. I found it amusing that a lot of people are attracted to us I guess because we are or was both male and female. I also find because of TV and the Media we are protrayed as whores and drug users so men think that is all we are there for. True many of us end up in the Sex Industry only because most company won't hire us. I've been out of work for over two years because of it but we all know there is little hope of proving that. Thank God I only have 5 months till I'm 62 so I can start drawing my Social Security. Try living this life without depression I've lived it for so long it doesn't bother me anymore. At least because I finally made it to living as me I'll died happy.
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I guess I'm a little lost here. Why do you think you must tell everyone? I can understand fighting for trans gender rights, etc. but I mean in your personal life. People who meet you and like your personality will be friends no matter. But to make an issue of your preferences before they have a chance to know the real you is sort of a social death wish. Don't take offense, I am outspoken not intending to be hurtful. There are lots of places to meet others with alternative sexual preferences. Find a group and vent to your heart's content (these blogs are a good start) then go about your life as the lady you want to be. Sometimes we can be too honest for our own good.
The world is full of narow minded people who will always try to make you feel bad about yourself. Hiding in retirement will not change that. Why should you let them reduce your income by taking early retirement? Don't let them have that power over you.
Keep your head held high and remember you deserve as much in life as anyone else.
I wish it was that easy some have closed there records so no one know of their past. That cost money for all the surgeries needed to be so called complete and normal which are labels. Most of us don't have the money to do this my records are not closed so when I apply for a job they see who I was and know I'm Transsexual. We all know companies discriminate against us but how do you prove that you don't. I don't tell everyone I meet if they ask I have no problem telling especially if a man is interested in me I find there is a lot less problems being up front. Wouldn't you like that to happen if you were attracted to someone that was Transsexual and don't say and you can't tell yes some you can but many you can't tell. My purpose is to educate people about us so young children and adults do not have to go through the hell I did and others. Its not right we are treated worst than animals and beat up and killed and many say good one less weirdo in the world. Don't you think the world would be a better place if people that think this way were educated not to think this way. We know this isn't going to happen because of powerful Religions and Govenments and they are not going to let that happen where is the justice it that and love thy brother as the Bible teaches.
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Thank you for your support and seeing the good in people. Yes I'm trying to make a difference for all of the human race to see the good in others but I know this road I'm on is a very ruff road and very steep. I'm not a quitter for what I believe and I only see love and compassion for others in my quest for understanding.
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