Joined this site just because i made a determination " today" I need to loose weight now because i'm tired of making excuses for myself and I can't tell anyone how I feel so I thought that maybe if I told someone my feelings and my goals I could succeed for ones, so i'm following the "health action plan" that " Jillian Michaels" gave this morning and commit to it for myself not anyone else because i'm always putting everyone else before me and is left me feeling empty at the end of the day..not that I don't enjoy doing things for my family but after feeling accomplished for doing things for them I just wish I could feel the same way about me and I don't so I need to start loving myself again so I can perform better as a wife and mother,and sister and daughter and friend..please wish me success!!